Ed Stetzer (borrowing from Win Arn) has a great list of eight characteristics of newcomers who have really made it 'in' to a church:
- New members should be able to list at least seven new friends they have made in the church.
- New members should be able to identify their spiritual gifts.
- New members should be involved in at least one (preferably several) roles/tasks/ministries in the church, appropriate to their spiritual gifts.
- New members should be actively involved in a small fellowship (face-to-face) group.
- New members should demonstrate a regular financial commitment to the church.
- New members should personally understand and identify with church goals.
- New members should attend worship services regularly.
- New members should identify unchurched friends and relatives and take specific steps to help them toward responsible church membership.